Annalisa Barbieri
Annalisa Barbieri is a prominent advice columnist and writer, known for her thoughtful and empathetic approach to personal problems in her regular column for The Guardian. Through her work, she addresses a wide range of issues, offering practical solutions and emotional support to readers seeking guidance on their personal struggles.
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Every week, Annalisa Barbieri addresses a personal problem sent in by a reader.
I feel a lot of affection for a friend at work – could I be in love? | Family
United Kingdom· 2026-05-31
Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems in her advice column and encourages readers to seek her guidance.
My best friend’s ex is turning my partner against her. How can we heal our friendship group? | FriendshipUnited Kingdom· 2026-03-01
Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers in her weekly column.
I’m worried my boyfriend’s use of AI is affecting his ability to think for himself | FamilyUnited Kingdom· 2026-02-22
Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers in her weekly column.
My husband has started a friendship with a woman he used to work with. Am I right to be worried? | FamilyUnited Kingdom· 2026-02-15
Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers in her column.
We offered my friend a room to help her out, but four years later she’s still living with us | FamilyUnited Kingdom· 2026-02-08
Annalisa Barbieri addresses a personal problem sent in by a reader every week.
PMDD is ruining my life. What can I do? | Health & wellbeingUnited Kingdom· 2026-02-01
Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers in her weekly column.
I adore my husband, but I feel like a fraud at his church | FamilyUnited Kingdom· 2026-01-18
Annalisa Barbieri addresses a personal problem sent in by a reader.
I had an abortion due to climate anxiety. How can I come to terms with it? | FamilyUnited Kingdom· 2026-01-11
Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers and offers advice.
After three years of long-distance, my partner and I aren’t sure if we should stay together | FamilyUnited Kingdom· 2025-12-21Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers and offers advice on family dynamics.
My dad has given my brother 80% of his business and I feel horribly dismissed | FamilyUnited Kingdom· 2025-12-14
Every week, Annalisa Barbieri addresses a personal problem sent in by a reader.
I want to become a single mum, but feel envious of peers with partners | Life and styleUnited Kingdom· 2025-11-30
Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers and offers advice.
My friend only ever wants to talk about herself. Should I cut her off? | FriendshipUnited Kingdom· 2025-11-16
Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers and offers advice in her column.
Should I tell my husband I want to sell our brand-new dream home? | Life and styleUnited Kingdom· 2025-11-02
Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers in her weekly column.
I want to marry my girlfriend, but I’m worried it may upset my young son | FamilyUnited Kingdom· 2025-10-19
Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers in her weekly advice column.
I apologise too much, and it annoys everyone around me. How can I stop? | FamilyUnited Kingdom· 2025-10-12
Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers in her weekly advice column.
I am three months sober. How do I support my 11-year-old autistic son? | Parents and parentingUnited Kingdom· 2025-10-05
Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers and offers advice.
My cousin’s daughter didn’t invite me to her wedding and I feel deeply hurt | FamilyUnited Kingdom· 2025-09-28
Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers in her weekly column.
I moved abroad to live with my wife, but I’ve come to hate her country | FamilyUnited Kingdom· 2025-09-21
Every week, Annalisa Barbieri addresses a personal problem sent in by a reader.
I’m ashamed of my daughter’s messy garden. Should I say something? | FamilyUnited Kingdom· 2025-09-14
Every week, Annalisa Barbieri addresses a personal problem sent in by a reader.
Our daughter is being controlled by a school friend. What can we do? | FamilyUnited Kingdom· 2025-09-07
Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers in her weekly column.
I had electric shock treatment in the 1960s. Now I want to know why | Mental healthUnited Kingdom· 2025-08-24
Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers and offers advice on various topics.
My elderly mother has never had an orgasm. Is it too late for her to try? | FamilyUnited Kingdom· 2025-08-17
Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers in her weekly column.
I lost my hearing in one ear and I’m worried I won’t find a new job | Health & wellbeingUnited Kingdom· 2025-08-03
Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers in her weekly column.
My partner misled me about wanting a family, but I’m desperate to have kids | Life and styleUnited Kingdom· 2025-07-27
Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers in her weekly column.
One of my friends at school has turned toxic. How do I discuss it with her? | FriendshipUnited Kingdom· 2025-07-13
Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers in her weekly column.
A controlling partner is isolating my daughter. What can I do to help? | FamilyUnited Kingdom· 2025-07-06
Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers and offers advice in her column.
I’m worried my autistic son is going to struggle socially in his new school | Life and styleUnited Kingdom· 2025-06-29Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers and offers advice.
I can’t stand my sister’s husband. What can I do about him? | Life and styleUnited Kingdom· 2025-06-22
Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers in her advice column.
My mother-in-law is still driving despite a near miss. How can we stop her? | FamilyUnited Kingdom· 2025-06-15Annalisa Barbieri addresses personal problems sent in by readers in her weekly column.
I’m in my 20s with lots of online friends, but can’t seem to connect IRL | FriendshipUnited Kingdom· 2025-06-08